A set of cards designed to help you answer that essential question: ‘who should I spend my life with?’

Who Should I Be With? is a game designed to sharpen our sense of what we should be looking for in love.

It comprises a number of cards which describe some leading habits and character traits in people.

Each card has a character trait on one side and the opposite trait on the reverse; listing the pros and cons of each to help guide you to more successful choices in love.

It's a realistic, insightful and often funny tool to help us form better relationships.

Example Cards:

Oddly Tall

+ They’ve learned to carry it off; imposing/heroic; acquired compassion for anyone outside the norm.

- They’ll always be conspicuous. Residual sense of being freaky will reveal itself. Hotel beds too small. Long haul a nightmare (unless rich).

Surprisingly Short

+ Neat, delicate, pattable; they’ve coped with this challenge - they’ll cope with lots of others; they know it’s character that counts.

- Suppressed resentment. Overcompensation. It will always be something people notice. Might shout a lot in public.

How to Use the Cards:

You might...

-Sort through the cards, picking out the character traits you appreciate in a partner, and the ones that you find most maddening.

-Play the game with a friend, and enjoy the opportunity to laugh warmly, given how imperfect we all are, at the paradoxes of choice.

53 game cards | 89mm x 126mm | Instruction card included

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